Let me be honest here. It's a scam! Full of timewasters, you might be getting somewhere with somebody and then they just disappear. They'll pretend to care and give you compliments and the something will come up or they'll make an excuse not to meet. Time wasters! Why get my hopes up and then just ghost me. I'm so tired of people like that. The sad truth is though that everybody you meet online well, how can you know their story? How can they know yours? Unless there's straightforward communication you're not going to get anywhere. Take my advice try and find something better. You deserve something better no matter what your situation is. You deserve better than this sorry excuse of a website. People are not genuine on here and even if you could find somebody genuine they will probably mess you about.