If you're seriously thinking of visiting the girl or girls that you've been writing to, I would highly recommend you do, because it's really important to meet the women in person. The socials are an integral part of the meeting process. You're gonna meet hundreds of women, and you'll have different connections. But if you have a connection with that certain someone through the website with the letters, emails and phone calls, then meeting her in person will confirm everything for you. Going to visit the women and being together I think is very important. I had been writing Jackie a few months before I went to see her. And meeting her face to face and spending time with her was all that I needed. That's reason I went to see her. And I told her I would. Now we are happily engaged.