I placed the order for me, through my name, heck this email went to me, although my partner offered to pay and now everything has been addressed to her. I measured my finder twice and yet even following the directive of ordering the next side up, it is still too tight. I have skin peeling and a sore that has finally started to heal. It is a great concept although the "air flow" doesnt seem to be doing much. I enjoy the ring, I have changed it from my middle to my ring finger which feels a little weird and has left me rather dissapointed considering how expensive it was.