I received lots of messages from La Dãte between 30-70, some I blocked because of the age and others disgusting words and unacceptable intentions and behaviour. Unbelievable all these mailbox I deleted and thrash. To resolved issues either they made mistakes looking my current photos as their age, I already deleted my photos but still non stop mailbox keep on coming that I non stop also blocking, deleted and trash. I made friends whom also become my chat friends occasionally, but I don't expect to meet them although they keep on trying to made arrangement to see me and visit me in my hometown Australia. I just want chat online and friendship to them, therapy chat, that's all! It's nice to have someone to chat as long not boring, something interesting, I fascinated the way we exchanged message. But I also had favourite but unfortunately my favourite doesn't like me, he meant to be nice and dear to me but he just using me as a companion day and night to say hello and as an online chat, honestly he's deal, just only here, I accepted the internet reality show just as his requested help him. No need to meet each other just only here, he even said he's soul will guide me forever. I think to be in dating sites specify what you want... for eg. Why are you here? Do you want a future relationship, a reality gameshow, chat online, friendship mates, or a relationship, one night affair etc..... Be specific from the start so no hurt feelings, no regrets. It's true were buying credits, if you are rich, and financially standing you can afford the maximum credits offered but if we are volunteers, relying on allowance, small business income, pensioners, injury or disability allowance, we can only budget the minimum. So what are the Complaints? It's us, it's our self. Ask your self first before making complaints. Like what I said I made a choice to play the game of my favourite, I'm in love with his photos but I don't care if our deal just only here in La Dãte. I made my choice and now I deactivated my account temporarily bec. Of my volunteering, my space and time, my hobby, and my physiotherapist. Be careful of what you are saying and complaining. It's our choice. Good luck and hopefully use your instinct, and psychological knowledge whomever sending messages. Cheers Good day ..from Australia. Goodbye...