Be careful to whoever will sent message. Ignore, blocked, delete or report it if you dislike these identify. Before meeting arrangements, it doesn't matter it costs you more than thousands dollars. It doesn't matter if you are members for so long searching and finding the right person. You will not be sorry or regret but yeah, there's costs involved paying for credits. Before meeting make sure you exchange photos each other as possible selfie. Needs patience to chat online and texting messages or write letters to each other. It takes time, others up to 3 years had internet relationship or long distance relationship before they finally become husband and wife. La Dãte is not a scam but some people will sign in to find people victimising for lies, fraud, phishing and hack. Be careful to these sort of people, they're everywhere, they targeting different dating sites. Be happy and value every little moments you exchanged, try to stick to the one you really liked. Be happy and honest at all times. Cheers