None of us on the Mexico tour were there for a pen pal. We all wanted to meet our second half and enjoy our lives together. So if that is what you're looking for, I highly recommend to go to the website. Choose the city you wanna go to, look at the ladies that meet your qualifications or meet what you're looking for and send that letter to them and say hey I'm gonna be there and I would love to meet you on the tour if possible. That is how I met my partner. I told her I’ll be in your city and I would love to have a chance to date you and she replied absolutely yes.