If you're thinking of doing this, you need to be ready, you need your mind to be open to say I'm ready for this. For some men this will be an investment. I would recommend the social because it's a good start. You will meet many interesting ladies. After that, speak with the staff about your requirements and what type of lady your looking for. It's not only what you want but what you need in a relationship because each person has a past. From there get feedback from the staff because they are professionals and they are there to help you. You are paying for this so take advantage of their service.