The younger women are usually trying to get you to go to camsites or a site that will get money from you.Profiles that are old with inactive members stay displayed.You will probably not have much luck there.The Messenger IM is catastrophically bad.Very likely your information is being scrutinized by third parties and used without your knowledge I hear a lot of warnings about Sydney University combing these sites and using data.Even though its one of the cheaper sites its still not that good.Only thing thats good is its not an outright scam like about 90 percent of sites are these days.