Very comprehensive site - one question I had to read quite a few FAQ pages to get an answer - is around using water & oil lubes & a guy giving oral to his lady - in terms of taste, and impact on pleasure for both parties - ie would you recommend applying lube after oral stimulation - or do people find it makes little / no difference etc. Also - would apply lube to the guy's penis be sufficient or should it be liberally (and gently) applied to lady's labia etc? Thank you for addressing topics that many find awkward to ask -and even harder to find straight answers to - informative without being patronising or smutty .... thank you just read your next question - to go on yr newsletter distribution list - I said no - but it would be good to be able to go onto your site and read the latest / previous newsletters - though this is probably already possible.....