There are a lot of good things about this site. The women are real and you can get to know them. They are also good quality woman. But it ain't cheap. So think with your head (The big one). What has set me off is that I was having a good relationship with a woman (My third one and the first that peaked my interest) during Covid. However, the minute the quarantine started to end and I even mentioned that I would start working on my trip over there, she said she was interested in someone else. How long had that been going on I have no idea, but who knows how long I was still communicating while she was getting ready to check out. (FYI: The second woman that I had been interested was a lot of fun, super hot, and was crazy about me; but I cut it off early because I knew that she was too young to get serious about (I was highly sensitive to the "Green Card and Go" types.)) I do not necessarily blame her or UA Dreams, It could have just been circumstances, but this was quite an investment of time and money. It was not budget breaking, but any money is a lot if nothing is coming from it. My thoughts are to realize that, just like any relationship, it can collapse at any time. One is walking a tightrope over a steep gorge. If you are doing this to feed your ego or convince yourself that local woman are no good, stay away from this (BTW I found a local woman and I am extremely happy). So I do not believe it is a fraud and I do believe that if you can get there, you are getting a match with a fine lady. But it is a lot more like going through Special Forces training than Boot Camp.