Every message, every chat is incentivized. You pay for it and part of the fee you pay goes to the woman. Sometimes they are robotic messages, sometimes there are site's employees writing you in chat and trying to get you're interested. If you try any legit site like J4Bride.com you will notice that women aren't spending days and nights online there and not all of them are interested in you. As for Violet Dave absolutely every woman that you contact will write you back which is great but it's not normal isn't it? The secret is when you spend 3000 credits and get their contact information they will lose interest in you. They will come up with some kind of excuse to keep communication on Violetdates. No matter what they won't agree to use Whatsapp or any other free messenger. Violetdates is a pointless waste of money!