I've been on idates for a while now and when I ask for to chat outside of the Idates. They just say that they would rather say there and just get to know them via message chat of they just want to take it easy. I have asked a few woman about chatting via Facebook, email or even on the phone. But I they say lets say here. Plus when ever I send a long message I seem to get an answer straight and I feel that if you send a long message then it should long then just a few seconds to reply. Could anyone help me please.
