“Since I joined secretbenefits.com, I've had at least a dozen fun nights out with cool guys. The site is easy to use and I love that it doesn't cost me anything, so I thought to leave my impressions of the site.
Up to this point, I'm still enjoying. I'm still seeing 2 guys regularly and occasionally find new interesting ones on the site. They've respected me and have treated me like gentlemen.
I like the occasional email from Stella as I do read them and I've found a couple of them to contain some interesting tips. The website itself has always run fast. I've realized that arrangement dating is the way to go for me as everything is clear and never too serious. Makes things so much easier in the long run. Actually, I'm finding there to be far more men with profiles in my vicinity over the past years time (I already have my eyes on a few new guys that I think are pretty hot). XXXOOO”
“Good. Works just as one would expect. Easy signup and very non-intrusive. Keeping my profile private and reaching out only to the ones that really interest me. Wish there were more profiles to pick from but I live in a small community so I understand that it's limited. Plenty an hour away in the city.”
“Main thing I feel is don't expect to get away with fibbing on your profile and getting away with it for long! Skip the filtered photos too!
The men I've dated on here are very upfront and can be almost too honest. They will call you out fast! It happened to me once because I put I don't smoke on my profile which wasn't true and I regretted it with my date that turned out to be super picky. He actually smelled it on me and said he can't be around someone that smelled like an ashtray! So rude, haha. Since then, I honestly put my age, body type, that I smoke, etc. Over the past year, I met several men that met my expectations and I had a great time with all of them. My first real date from SB lasted 3 months.
Most of my dates have actually been great. I have dated most of them on several occasions. There are all kinds of men on here so I feel like there should be someone for just about anybody so don't get discouraged, just be honest.”
“Found my soon to be wife on SB. Maybe not the likeliest dating website to find someone that's marriage material but even before meeting Carol, I dated a few other high-quality women that were smart, took care of themselves and knew how to behave in social situations. Couldn't be happier with my experience on the site. Wedding is scheduled for next spring! Many thanks to SB!”
“works like I had expected. no frills. join and get to the point. they do a good job of not getting in your way with a bunch of personality tests and required questions. because they have no mobile app I think 4 stars is fair.”
“I totally get there are haters. I've read a load of reviews today and there are clearly all kinds. Not everyone is gonna have game, sorry.
I feel that if you act like a decent human being, take a few clear photos (remember to smile), and be honest you should stand a good chance here.
I'm not a model, but I know how to put my best foot forward. Also, keep in mind everyone is worried about getting scammed or catfished so verify your profile with their support if you want people to take you seriously.
I've had mostly great to good experiences from the dates I've gone out on from SB. Some have been duds, but odds are that's going to happen from time to time. The haters will always be haters. I personally have not met anyone from the site that complained, but hey, they actually managed to conduct themselves well enough to score a date with me, ahem. haha”
“Found a boyfriend last year from secretbenefits.com. Hid my profile. We broke up a few months ago and was happy to see my profile could still be reactivated. About a month in, found a new really great man. He asked me recently to be exclusive with him. Happy he did. Got me a hot new boyfriend!”
“I joined SB earlier this year and really enjoyed the platform, it wasn’t until a couple of months later that I realized my account had been reduced to limited access (I couldn’t send or receive messages, not viewable in search results).
Thoroughly confused by this, I reached out to customer service and they could not provide me with any information as to why they limited my access. So I did not know if it was something that was fixable on my end. After spending a week trying to resolve the issue, with NO effort on the customer support side, I decided to delete my account.
Fast forward a couple months later and I tried to create a new account, hoping that I wouldn’t experience any issues. After a day, my account was again dropped to limited access without communication. It wasn’t until I reached out to customer support that I found out.
They failed to provide me with any details on how I could resolve this issue. I thoroughly read through all of the terms both times this occurred and could not understand what I had breach as I had followed ALL proper instructions and even had some great experiences from the site.
I have been very disappointed in the lack of communication that customer support has provided and feel as if there is no effort being made to help a consumer resolve a serious issue, being that if I can’t send or receive messages, there is really no point of me being on the platform.
I have been sugar dating for several years now and have tried various different websites, this is the first I have come across to have any issues of this nature. It is very unfortunate, I hope that they change their policies so they can help provide more insight into situations similar to mine. As a consumer, I appreciate transparency, this is something that I have found extremely lacks with this website. Knowing that I am not the only one who has come across this, I would highly recommend going to a competing site.”
“Secret Benefits is a dating site for would-be sugar daddies. It is full of false profiles, each resembling the other in terms of the style of photography and profile text. In fact the profile texts appear to have been written by some kind of bored hack journalist with no imagination for variety. The profiles are so obviously false it's almost ridiculous. On top of this, Secret Benefits works hard to remove any critical reviews from Trustpilot. One can assume they pay Trustpilot to remove these, as I twice wrote a legitimate critique, proving my subscription to Secret Benefits, and both times Trustpilot deleted my reviews. I will say Secret Benefits have a good and responsive customer service, though I would recommend to these nice people that they seek a legitimate employer and leave the den of deception that is Secret Benefits - and by the way, if you read the positive reviews on Trustpilot, you will notice they are written in the same style. What a surprise.”
