“Here's the thing about this pillow. It is a GREAT idea. BUT if you like soft pillows, this is not a great idea for you, is very uncomfortable to sleep on something this hard. Yes, it is covered by a soft kinda memory foam like coat, but whatever it is inside the pillow that gives it that shape IS VERY hard.Now, if you do like hard pillows and sleeping on your bf/husbands arm. Go for it.”