I bought a sports card 'buy it now' ebay, on 12/12/2020 . I waited about 10 days, never got any notice that is shipped. On 12/20/2020 I received a message from the sellers id that said 'My father (the seller) was going to get out of the hospital on Monday but he will not be getting out until Wednesday.' I responded 'No worries'. Because it was a round the holidays I waited another 3 weeks and never hear anything. Sent a message to the seller and didn't receive any response. I called ebay and they said oh sorry it has been more than 30 days you can't get your money back. So for being kind I got screwed. Thanks ebay!!!!