“Danish is the kindest man, he helped soothed my mind in a time of extreme emotional turmoil. The discard was brutal, it involved police and the need for a restraining order. Which is awful when you still love and miss the narc. Breaking the trauma bond is so difficult, but with Danish's help, I will make it through. Thank you.”
“He was very helpful to me and my mom in dealing with my narcissistic father. We appreciated how well he listened as well as how he gave us strategies to help us heal and move on.”
“Danish got me through a horrific and difficult time. He is so authentic and vulnerable, which helped me grow those parts of myself through our sessions. I had the painful displeasure of being discarded and divorced by a covert narcissist, and all of the gaslighting, devaluation, physical ailments, self doubt, and crazy-making that went along with that.
Danish helped me recover a sense of both reality and myself, and made me understand that empathy and a wiring to love and serve unconditionally are not codependency or weakness - but strength to be shared with someone who will value those gifts and reciprocate. He talked me out of having a “hopeless hope” that I could somehow save her from her darkness. Because of his counsel, I was in a place to identify the real thing when my soulmate stumbled into my life.
I still carry scars, and I always will. But taking it “there,” so did Jesus when Thomas said He wouldn’t believe the Good News if he couldn’t touch and interact with the scars in Christ’s hands and side. My scars don’t hurt like they did, and I am now equipped for those scars to tell a story of good news for people who need to see them to believe that beauty does indeed come from ashes.”
“I had an amazing experience with Danish. His expertise, empathy and guidance has enabled me to release past traumas whilst also providing me the necessary tools to confidently move forward on my healing journey. Thank you!”
“Danish is a Godsend when on the path of recovery in dealing with a narcissist. He has an exquisite ability to zero in on the nuances of narcissistic patterns with laser sharp acuity to help you move through the painful fog and onto the other side of it with a re-empowered clarity and reclamation of self.”
“I can’t say enough about Danish and his expertise when it comes to narcissism. He pulled me from the brink and helped me to see that I was trauma bonded and that everything I went through was abusive. With his help I’ve been able to overcome the cognitive dissonance and trauma bonding that I have been subjected to for over 30 years. If you’re looking for a top-notch, narcissistic abuse, therapist look no further. I can’t recommend him enough!”
“Working with Danish has been essential to my healing. When I initially found him and listened to one of his courses, my eyes welled up because I knew I needed a certain kind of help but had no idea where it would come from or even what it was exactly, but in that moment I knew he was it. I have done several different types of therapy and healing in my life - some very helpful and others less so. None helped me change my beliefs and patterns at the root level, like Danish did. He is able to show up attuned and caring in the present moment and also navigate depth, complexity and nuance. He is able to do healing work, and also able to talk through real-time issues and give valuable recommendations. He is deeply gifted in what he does. There were a few times when I was so stuck and it was Danish's insight and wisdom that helped me move past what felt insurmountable. I worked with him weekly for many months upon leaving an abusive relationship, and it changed me and my life and is having ripples into the next generation. My greatest wish is to limit the passing on of unhealthy and limiting patterns as much as I can, and Danish has helped me do that. I also feel to add that I am able to interact with toxic people (only when I must of course) and do so with ease and being solid and true to myself, nothing short of a miracle. I hope to continue to work with him at different times in my journey ahead as well. I can't recommend him enough.”
“I came to Danish after discovering him on social media and began watching his videos when I realized the type of abuse I had continued to endure for over 40 years , most recently in a short lived marriage . I was discarded by my husband after cycles and patterns of lies abuse gaslighting and manipulation. I was at an all time low . After a few sessions with danish I not only was able to emotionally regulate myself but also able to find strength and peace in a very emotional time . He gave me insight and strategies to use and they have worked wonders . He is calming and brings a light to the darkest days . I am currently using all the techniques he has practice with me and they are helping I can’t wait to continue trauma based therapy with Danish!”
“Danish was there during the darkest of times when I was questioning everything about myself. My ex had me broken, thinking I was narcissistic and feeling scared. I thought no one would believe me or be able to make sense of all the covert ways that my ex was using to control me. Danish cut through it all, he was able to identify all the abuse and name it, there was no judgment, instead, a deep understanding of the tactics and impact of living with a covert narcissist for almost 20 years has on your nervous system, your physical health, your mental health and thinking. Danish helped me through the trauma and gave me sage advice when the situation was getting dangerous and precarious. I will always be grateful for Danish deep understanding of this type of abuse, he helped to save my life.”
“I had emotionally lost myself and was questioning everything about myself or that happening around me. The classes with Danish helped me tremendously since he helped me realize I was being abused in this narcissistic and very toxic relationship. I was still in denial learning this terminology and becoming aware of what was happening. The techniques, videos, and suggestions really really helped me come at peace, accept things, and realize that it’s not worth hurting myself over someone who will never change and constantly blame everything on me. It’s very hard and painful to leave but it is what’s best for us. Very grateful to Danish for the help and knowledge and highly recommend his coaching to others.”
“I am so pleased with my sessions with Danish. He helped me a lot to come to terms with what happened to me. He also helped me to see why and how it all happened and I will be eternally grateful to him for his advice, healing, and emotional support. Also for his advice on how to move forward. Thank you!!!”
“Danish is a professional, intuitive, kind, empathetic, knowledgeable, patient, and skillful coach. Work with him if you definitely want to win yourself back after experiencing narcissistic abuse.”
“Hello
I was looking for answers from being in a narcissistic marriage and accidentally stumbled upon Danish Bashir.
Doing the course with him has had a remarkable change in my thinking and the resources he provides are profoundly life changing ! I strongly recommend spending time doing the course to experience first hand how it can bring peace within your being !
Good luck and best wishes in your journey …. there is light at the end of the tunnel 💯
Best
Susan”
“Danish understands and explains these difficult situations very well. I appreciate his insight and the calm and clarity he brings to our sessions. It was helpful for me to talk through my concerns with someone who grasps the situation and sees the whole picture in a way that helps me better navigate these issues.”
“I started working with Danish to work through trauma and learn how to manage troubling narcissists in my life. Working with him was wonderful. I didn't have to explain much before I saw that he had a keen understanding of the nuances of having a narcissist in your life - he was unconditionally supportive, gentle in his approach, trauma-informed (this was key for me), and aware of the complications it all involves. We worked through some critical issues and he gave me not just techniques to work on the situation, but also techniques to heal while going through turbulent times. I recommend him highly.”
